🏮They start to compare themselves to others who are not facing a similar situations or who they think is living life better.
🏮They become unforgiving and hateful.
🏮They blame others or other factors and give excuses for a situation they had the power to prevent.
🏮They engage in self- harm or dwell on negative thoughts.
🏮They become hateful towards others or try to punish others that are innocent because they don't want to suffer alone.
🏮They refuse to analyze the situation, learn lessons, or move on. Instead they dwell in self pity and sadness.
🏮They complain and lament over and over.
🏮They refuse to take advice.