Let me start this article by asking,
Do you love yourself? (Comment)
There are people around who don't feel like loving themselves but I hope most of the answers would be 'Yes'.
So, this article is for both types.
We must love ourselves but not make it ego or identity to stop us from not rediscovering ourselves and for beautiful people who don't love themselves it is a must to rediscover themselves and not believe their filter of a negative world.
What is it like being the best version of yourself?
It is like being the important yourself, and to be the essential self we must be away from the clouds of the distorted reality of social media, Ads, and opinions of people.
Finding things that complete you like, values, passion, interests, and hobbies will help us to find the essential self.
Talking to yourself is a great exercise to know yourself, talk and talk until you rediscover yourself.
Rediscovering yourself
This is the first step to being the best version of yourself (complete steps will be provided in another article).
Sit in front of a mirror, be straight, look into your eye, give a smile and start asking yourself the following questions -
What am I good at?
What stresses me out?
What impact do you want to make in the world?
What do you love doing?
Who do you enjoy being around?
What makes me happy?
What makes me angry?
Answer these questions honestly and sincerely, as you go on you will notice that while answering some questions you will go through different emotions.
If you notice “negative” emotions like anxiety or anger, you’re probably telling yourself subtle negative messages that obscure your conversation. Dig deeper into what’s driving the feeling.
Are you afraid of what you’ll find when you dig deep?
We may feel like lacking some qualities, but the truth is you are already complete. It’s getting in touch with this essential self that will free you to be the best version of yourself.
Final Thoughts
Why be the best version of yourself because we need to identify the real us before time passes by and leave us with regrets.
Being the best version of yourself is a continuous process that goes on till we are alive on this planet
The process itself will help you to love yourself truly and more, and as it is a continuous process you won't be stagnant and it will lead to stability, peace, and happiness.
Some people may think they are already enough and love themselves, and they don't need to change. Remember life is like a moving stream, not a stagnant pool.
Be aware of this.
Change isn't risky, being stagnant is...
~Kylie Fancis
To rediscover ourselves we must keep learning, trying, and improving different things/activities. Until it completes you.
Life is all about continuously discovering yourself.
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