EYES
- Eyes roll upwards when thinking
- Only roll the eyes without turning the head when wanting to look at somebody
FACE
- Smile more with the eyes than with the mouth.
- Hold head more erect and tilted.
- Women smile far more than men in both social and business situations.
POSTURE
- erect, straight, soft
MOUTH
- Smile by showing all the teeth
- SMILE all the time, SMILE before communicating
- Covering your mouth with hand when chewing or giggling
HAND
- Point at something with index finger flexed and turned upwards
SITTING
- Crossing legs at the thigh level when seated
- Smoothing the back of skirt or dress when sitting
- or keep our legs together and cross our heels, placing the hands in the lap
BENDING
- cover your chest
- bend your knees and squat down as you bend over to pick something up.
CONVERSATION
- have their knees pointing towards the other
- more gesturing than in a male
- tend to touch each other's forearm when we are making a point.
- Gesturing with just her hands while she talks, rather than moving her arms too
- Touching other people lightly on the arm or shoulder when she speaks to them
- Women stand slightly closer to one another, face each other more, and often touch.
SMALL MOVEMENTS
- Tilting her head and shaking her hair a little to be able to get the phone next to her ear.
- Sliding her finger along the bottom edge of panties/bathing suit/leotard to unbunch it.
- Holding the backs of her arms or elbows when she crosses them, rather than tucking them under her biceps.
- Moving her hips SUBTLY when she walks.
- Ladies tend to play with their hair, if they are feeling good talking to a guy.
- Holding a cup with index and thumb, rest fingers flexed
- Holding the fork at the end
- Sitting like a girl, legs crossed,arms as close to body as possible and kept a straight posture.
- Holding glass at the side
- shrugging and talking
- holding hands and shaking hands limp and only using tips of fingers
- adjusting handbag strap
- sitting down from standing position
- hands holding up head
HIPS
- Women who want to draw attention to themselves put their hands on their hips combined with a pelvic tilt.
- May also put just one hand on the hip and gesture with the other.
STAND
They center their weight on the back leg and extend the other out in front.
MIRROR
- more likely to mirror another woman (copy her gestures or body posture).. Women also mirror men’s body language .
ANXIETY
- In stressful situations, women may cross one arm across the body to hold or touch the other arm as if she is hugging herself.
- Anxious or self-conscious women use their handbags or purses to cross their arms in front of her body.
- Shy and timid women will cross their legs and then wrap the foot of the top leg around behind the other so her legs are entwined.
FLIRTING
- Women laugh at men they’re attracted to, his jokes or comments.
- Women tend to keep their arms more open when they are around men they find attractive.
(And are likely to fold their arms across their breasts around aggressive or unattractive men.)
- A woman will place one hand on top of the other and rest her face upon it, presenting her face to a man to attract his attention and for him to admire it
- Head toss and hair flick backed over the shoulders or away from the face
- Wet lips and pouting mouth, slightly open
- Self-touching, like stroking thigh, neck or throat
- Limp wrist as submission signal
- Fondles a cylindrical object, like a pen, pencil, lipstick case, etc.
- Exposes wrists.
- Flicks or toys with an object.
- Sideways glance over raised shoulder.
- Places handbag in close proximity to the man – if she likes him.
- Knee point – one leg tucked under the other and pointing to the person she finds most interesting.
- Shoe fondle – dangling the shoe on the end of the foot and thrusts foot in and out of it
- Leg twine – one leg crossed over the other and pressed against it
- Constantly cross and uncross her legs when she’s with a man she likes.
- Will get up and move across room, then return & sit again (attract guys attention).
- Mouth words to music and sway head to music when looking at attractive guy.
- Lick their lips a lot.
- “Bite down” on lower lip with top teeth slightly exposed.
- Glance at a guy they like, then look away, then look again.
- “Solitary dance”- in a bar, etc., will get up, move away from group and move to the music to attract attention and separate themselves (as display to be singled out and noticed)
- Laugh a lot more than the others in the group in response to a guy she likes.
- Will lightly touch a person she likes when given the opportunity.
- Will stroke her hair frequently while looking at a guy she finds attractive.
- This also exposes her neck to the guy. (submission gesture).
- Will cross legs with the top leg facing the person she likes (“closing them in”).
WALKING
- Rolls hips when she walks.
- Pelvic tilt – emphasizes waist to hip ratio (a waist that is 70% of the hip size is most attractive to men)
- Take advantage of any reflection to check out their appearance (in a window, mirror).
- Will erect/straighten up posture upon standing, extend chest, tighten stomach,
- place one hand on upper stomach and lightly “brush” clothes “downward” with other hand.
- Women tend to stand ankles together, legs touching all the way from top to bottom.
How about playing with shoes when seated?
SPEECH
- talk softer.
- talk more about feelings, relationships and people.
- listen carefully and attentively for a long period without interrupting.
- Men tend to give a quick "thanks" while women say "thank you" in an extended sweet manor which much inflection.
- Men say "So" or "Go". Many women say "Seo" or "Geo". The "e" being pronounced like the "e" in the word "set". Men say "what" women say "wet".
- Some women tend to accentuate the letter "S" every chance they can get which is where I believe the term swishy came from. They pronounce their Ts more distinctly then men. Sometimes men don't pronounce the "T" at all
- Men in general have a more relaxed enunciation where as women tend enunciate every consonant and vowel.
- Men's voices come from lower in the larynx than a woman's which most full timers modify to give a more realistic woman's voice.
- Women tend to use pronounced inflection especially while giving a salutation.