Have you ever had people so focused on you that they lose track of themselves?
I have over the years learned to slowly start to peel away the layers that I had accumulated. Some voluntarily, others through 'suggestion'.
I still have a lot to learn but one thing I'm sure of, labels will be applied regardless of who you are. Some would rather focus on other people's flaws than their growth.
I'd rather work on myself than waste precious time making assumptions. The world would be a better place if more people stopped trying to fit others in stereotypical categories and just focused on their journey.