BLAMING OTHERS; IS IT WORTH IT?

👤By Derrick M

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"All of this couldn't have happened, it's all your fault, I no longer want to see your face, so please leave my sight". These words are so common in people and I think mostly in movies, you must have heard of these words in the movies, series or possibly said them to somebody, these words are used so much because whenever something terrible happens, people are always looking for someone to blame and fortunately they do, this can be their friend, their employee or anyone else.

What does " blaming others mean?

The Cambridge English Dictionary defines blaming as saying or thinking that someone or something did something wrong or is responsible for something bad happening. I'm sure you already knew the definition of blaming but I just thought it would be better to write it down. Yes, all over the world there is always someone to blame, I don't know if blaming others is in our nature or anything but one thing is for sure that whenever something bad happens you or maybe I always look for someone to blame, why? Because no one of us wants to take the blame in other words the responsibility.

Is blaming others worth it?

What do you think, could or would blaming others be worth it, in my own opinion, it depends, it could be worth it on the other hand and still not worth it on the other hand, what I'm trying to say here is that It can be worth it blaming someone if what you are blaming him or her for is true, he or she could have made a mistake or responsible for something that has happened, so it is worth it blaming someone like this because it can help him or her to come back to his or her senses or back in line, on the other hand it is not worth it to blame someone who didn't do anything wrong, why?

Because if you accuse or blame someone who didn't do anything bad then that someone will hate you and wouldn't want to look at you, because all of what you are blaming him or her for is not true at all, if that person is your friend or anyone close to you, blaming him or her would hurt him or her because he or she has been a friend and will be offended if he or she is your employee, by the way, I think you too know it very well that on this planet earth no one wants to be blamed, so let the reason for which you are blaming or accusing him or her be reasonable, note that it is also important to always try to get to know the facts before blaming someone because you may end up regretting.

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