Hi. It's Red. How are you doing? Remember that this is very general. I'll try to do the rest of the signs as well. I hope you like them. This is only for Aries.
Now, Aries is ruled by Mars. Mars is our sexual drive, it's our passion for life, our instinct and the aggressive side of our emotional world. It's our lust, and less vulnerable feelings. For Aries, their Mars is the one fueling their self of sense. Their ambition, drive, passion, and even anger or lust is what gives them a sense of identity. In order for an Aries or Aries Sun to feel self-confident and feel like themselves, they must do something they are passionate about, and also just like Cancer or Cancer Suns, their connection with their physical body is of utmost importance. I would suggest daily or weekly exercises. Since they are ruled by Mars, for Aries Sun, it's not unusual to have temper outbursts, that's why it's important for them to invest their energy into their passion. Aries Sun usually identify with their anger and passion. So use that energy productively, okay?
Mars in Aries: If your Mars is in Aries, than you are a typical Aries. Mars is in its dominant sign. Your passion and desire for initiative gives you a sense of self. You are courageous and prone to anger outbursts. You have ton of energy, and in whatever you are passionate about you invest ton of it. But, sometimes you use that energy unwisely, and spend tons of energy without taking a break, thus experiencing something called Aries burnout, which leaves you with a deep sense of emptiness and irritation.
Mars in Taurus: I really like Mars in earth signs; in Taurus, you are not likely to have temper outbursts often. You are not likely to waste your energy away or undertake projects impulsively. Maybe you invest lots of time in cooking and in eating. But, once someone manages to piss you off, you are more likely to hold a grudge. You have a deep sense of your body, and are very unlikely to experience Aries burnouts, which tend to leave you unmotivated with a deep sense of emptiness and irritation.
Mars in Gemini: You are an extroverted Aries! You spend lots of energy communicating and learning new things. But, you are too spontaneous! Try not to jump from one project to another. When you are angry, you tend to be quite argumentative. Your moods change frequently and unexpectedly, but you tend not to hold a grudge for too long.
Mars in Cancer: You're a moody Aries. Every time you feel really angry for no reasons, make sure to eat a cookie or something. You are very much in touch with your emotions, instinct and body. I would suggest you to keep a diary and write what you feel every day or go to a therapist, because there's a strong tendency in you to be completely influenced by unconscious feelings or memories. In order for you to feel self-confident, you must learn to rely on yourself and to hold yourself accountable if you have temper problems.
Mars in Leo: When you're angry, your temper is fiery, passionate, and you might have a tendency to not admit when you are wrong. You LOVE to initiate new projects and to show them to others. You have a strong self of confidence, and immense amount of energy. You'd like to be the King/Queen.
Mars in Virgo: You love investing your energy in your projects and in helping others, and you gain a strong self of confidence by success in those projects and in helping others. You are the wisest of Aries, and if you realize that you had indeed made a mistake, you will apologize for it.
Mars in Libra: You have a strong tendency to be passive-aggressive. You indeed are sociable and fair, and have a strong sense of pride in fighting for social matters. If your significant other or someone you are close with, is angry, you are very likely to be angry as well, sometimes not even realizing what angered you in the first place.
Mars in Scorpio: Mars is in its dominant sign, but it's also ruled by Pluto. You have an enormous amount of energy, more than any Aries. When you are angered, you can be truly terrifying to those who have unknowingly stepped into lions' den. But, many of you know how to restrain yourself. Also, you are immensely passionate and sexual, and are very much in touch with the sexual side of yourself.
Mars in Sagittarius: You are really adventurous. I have to say that you are the most extroverted Aries. You can gain self-confidence by doing projects about issues you care about, whatever they are. You have strong opinions, and are willing to fight for them.
Mars in Capricorn: It is said to be the Mars best position. You are ambitious and driven, but not too impulsive. You gain a deep sense of pride in accomplishing your goals, but you don't do stuff that you don't have to do. You fulfill your obligations and work hard, but you don't invest too much energy, therefore less chance of feeling Aries burnout, which leaves you with a deep feeling of emptiness, irritation and lethargy.
Mars in Aquarius: Your energy as well as your sense of self and confidence fluctuates frequently. You could really profit from group projects. There's a slight tendency in you to ignore your anger, until you surprise even yourself when you suddenly lose it. You are an unique person, and you have a strong sense of individuality.
Mars in Pisces: With this placement, Aries have lots of imagination and a strong drive to invest their energy in creative fields. Anger in those people can reflect as a desire for self-harm, or a great need to indulge in escapist hobbies like alcohol, movies, etc. Aries with Mars in Pisces have more problems trying to gain a sense of self. They may be a bit confused about who they are, but they will gain a strong sense of self when they invest their energy in arts or in helping others. Just like those with Mars in Virgo, they can also find themselves in medicine. And, just like Mars in Libra, they may perceive the anger of other people as their own unconsciously, but other people may also feel their anger very clearly. Those people are influenced by their environment more than any other Aries. They shouldn't try to define themselves, because their personality is quite chameleon and this is their power. Also, it's important to note that trying too hard to control their anger will most likely be fruitless. Like with Mars in Cancer, they must keep a diary and get professional help, if they have problems with depression or self-harm tendencies. Their anger is most of the time quite unconscious, and they must learn to recognize it in themselves; that's why I suggested that using a diary to write down their frustration would help.
Additional information:
Mars in Virgo, Pisces, Sagittarius, Gemini: Your sense of self fluctuates frequently, also no matter how strong your anger can be, it doesn't last long. One moment you are full of energy, the next you don't feel like doing anything.
Mars in Aries, Capricorn, Libra, Cancer: You are not someone who goes from one project to another in a hear-beat, but also you can quit something if you must.
Mars in Scorpio, Leo, Taurus, Aquarius: You are highly unlikely to quit something, and basically you either have great energy for a really long time or you feel lethargic for a long time.
~ Red Rose-Crown
P.S. If you know more about astrology, remember to watch out for those Mars returns. You get a new sense of self, and if you're struggling with self esteem, this is a perfect opportunity to work on your confidence.
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