Our Men have no choice but to show up in the world in their natural state. Noone is forgiving of a fat man in a sear sucker suit and a wig. It takes courage to accept the package you come in and attempt to make a gourmet meal out of that.
In stark contrast is the modern black woman. Armored to the spirit with other people's hair, weight, and antics. How dare they turn their painted noses up at men's nature.
If these women can admit they don't have the life experiences it takes to raise a man; they have already admitted they can't tell a man how to be a one either. Still, these women will not adjust their behavior.
Control and power is the ultimate goal.