I uploaded more photos, added to my online profile...
But I was really wandering around aimlessly unsure of where I was headed. I was still attached to my belief in meeting someone and seeing how it goes 😉. Can you relate? In other parts of my life, I planned, prepared, and executed.
But in my quest for a meaningful relationship, I always left it up to magic and fantasy, lol. Everything becomes clear when you look back, doesn’t it?
Healing practice: have a Plan
Plan to be playful: regardless if you’re single or in a relationship ...being playful connects back to intimacy, which leads to passion. Don’t worry it will automatically pivot to long-term commitment.
I’m not playful, I like to laugh a lot. But my son taught me how to be playful. He likes to wrestle with me, initially, it was not fun for me but over the years I’ve had to adjust and now we laugh together. Could you imagine wrestling your parents TO THE FLOOR😲
...I couldn’t even imagine a reality where this existed, but for him, it was a big joke how uncomfortable I was.
My lack of playfulness reflected in my online profile. Who wants to be with someone who can’t be a kid sometimes?
Are you a fun partner? Let’s say you are, does it translate to deeper intimacy and passion? If not then continue developing this attribute in your relationship. You'll be happy with the rewards.
If you’re single and ready to be in a relationship... now is a good time to practice with your inner circle how silly you can be, so when you’re in a partnership you’re prepared to play around.
And by the way, you might learn like I did that having a sense of humour is not the same as being playful and connecting with the kid side of your personality. Once you do, it makes you more fun to be around and you can both enjoy the laughter together.
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