Before you start any relationship you have to do what is called an energy test. You have to know how to gauge if your energies are a match or not. And you do that by paying attention to how things go around you when you meet. Did you stumble? Did the other person stumble? Did you drop anything? Did they drop anything? Did you cough? Did they cough? Your energies should swirl and dance. Not bump and struggle to make a connection. Your energies should not be like trying to put the same side of a magnet together. It will never happen because opposites attract and like repel. This is why there is a science to courting or coming together.
When you are meeting anyone for the first time for any reason. Your thought creates what is called feeler energy. That energy goes out and begin to search that person that you are meeting. You send the energy out and it comes back to you filled with information, you just have to know how to read it. Your brain is really a chemical factory. It creates everything you need according to your thoughts. This is why proper knowledge is so important. You don’t want to be at a deficit of brain power.
I mentioned courtship earlier in this article. What Is the difference between dating and courtship? Dating is when you meet someone go out, enjoy each others company and get to know one another without in most instances the concept of marriage. Courtship is when you get to know each other with the concept of marriage at the end of the courtship. Courtship is different in the way that you are actually taking the person to court. You are coming to the table with documentation that you are seeking answers to, so that you can make a sound decision on your choice of a mate. Courtships for the most part are usually short, sweet and to the point, and without any lag if conducted properly.
Courtships should be conducted by an experienced married couple that can see from the outside looking in. In others words an unbiased point of view in order to give and open and honest observation. I understand that I may sound old fashioned with what I am saying. But the choice of mates is the most important decision that you will ever make in your life. The right choice is the difference between misery and happiness.
You may say, that is with anything or anybody, and that is true. But this is the start of your garden (If you are not familiar with the term garden. Please refer back to my previous article) And you don’t want to waste time with someone that is not actually your mate for life. Not too many thing are a life choice like marriage. So lets not skimp on due diligence.